Channelled Message From "MONEY"

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I am Money. I know my very name brings up myriad emotions , memories and thoughts for you. They might leave you feeling joyful, excited and happy. Or they might leave you feeling worthless, ashamed, and doubting yourself. 

Whatever your feelings, they do not come from me. They are not of my doing. They are not my responsibility. They are yours. 

If our relationship has been fraught with complications, it is not too late to fix it. I am forgiving. I am patient. You see, I do not take it personally because your issues with me are not about me. They stem from your own insecurity, your fear, your feelings of not deserving a good relationship with me.

I am whatever you believe me to be and I will respond to whatever that might be. I cannot change what goes on in your heart or your mind in relation to me. I can only assure you that I am not responsible for your frustration or anger or anything else you might feel about me that is not helpful to your cause.

I do not take any of this personally because I am your best friend. I care about you more than you could ever imagine. I want you to be happy. I want you to be fulfilled. I want you to have the best and healthiest foods, the ability to do whatever makes your heart sing. I want you to have access to anything you need that will make your life better. I want to give you the world and everything in it so you have the freedom to live the life of your dreams and be all you are meant to be.

Even when you say you hate me. Even when you blame me for everything that is wrong or missing in your life. I am still your best friend.

But I sit on the sidelines when you think of me that way. I will avoid you. Although you might enjoy your dark and negative thoughts and words about me, that is not how I would treat my friends, much less my best friend. So as long as you think of me like that, I will stay away. However, in spite of your unkind treatment of me, I will always care about you and will be here waiting for you to treat me with the respect and appreciation I deserve.

The more you speak about your problems with me, the more I avoid you. I do not enjoy negative energy. It doesn’t make me feel good. And it doesn’t make you feel good, either. Yet you persist in speaking and thinking of me with negativity, insults and cutting remarks. 

I did nothing to deserve it. Whether or not I show up in your life is a direct reflection of your beliefs, thoughts, and choices. It is true that you may or may not have had some outside influences and circumstances that have impacted our relationship but you are always free to change your responses to those circumstances. And you are also free to change your view of me.

Even if we have been good friends in the past and I’ve done many wonderful things for you, your attitude towards me might have changed all of that and I left. I want to give you the world but if you treat me with disrespect, I will leave. If you do not appreciate me, I will leave.

I thrive in a positive environment. I grow where I am viewed with joy and treated with kindness. I do not appreciate being dumped into a handbag or stuffed into a wallet without care. I do not show up if your wallet is empty. It looks like a lonely place for me. I prefer to show up if I have company, so keep some of my friends in your wallet, neatly tucked in, please, and thank them for being there; show my friends the respect they deserve.

I do not appreciate it when you pay little or no attention to my comings and goings in your life. When you ignore me, I will get your attention by disappearing. I will get your attention by wreaking havoc on your debt load and your credit score. I will get your attention by making it impossible for you to do the things you love. 

The more you say unpleasant things about me, the more I will make it clear that you ought to respect me. 

When you remember to be kind, when you remember to honour, respect and appreciate me, and when you remember to be thankful for however I am showing up in your life — even if it is not as much as you would like — I will be happy to come back to you.

And the more you treat me that way, the more I will show up. And the more I will be happy to bring lots of my friends with me, too.

If you complain when you pay your bills, I stay away. I am there, making it possible for you to pay them yet you curse me. That is no way to treat a friend. I would be happier to hear you thanking me for showing up so you could pay those bills. I would begin to feel appreciated. I would take steps toward you again.

But when I do something for you and you do not honour or appreciate it, I am not impressed. I do not care for ingratitude. And if I am to be perfectly honest, when you treat me that way it is rude. If a friend handed you a nicely wrapped gift and gave you something you wanted, would you curse them for it? I do not believe you would.

Yet you choose to say you hate me while at the same time you use me to stay warm, to have a home, to buy food and take care of yourself in many ways.

Is that how you treat your human friends? I sincerely hope not or you will be very lonely.

I can only act in response to your treatment of me and your feelings about me.

Do you love it when your human friends believe in you? Do you love knowing they are always there for you? I am the same. When you believe in me, and believe that I am always there for you, I will take notice and I will be there as any best friend would be.

When you use me, take a moment to be polite and thank me. That’s common courtesy, is it not? When you use me, acknowledge me. Treat me as a blessing. Talk to me each time. Take a moment to send me out into the world to do good and finish with thanking me for coming back and bringing lots of my friends. 

Send me into the world with a loving heart and a trusting mind, knowing that I am coming back to you. 

Be generous. I do not like to be stagnant. I do not like it when you cling to me with a death grip around my throat. I enjoy being saved, especially when you watch me grow, even if only a little each month. This is one way I can give you security. But when you are miserly with me, when you refuse to share me or use me to help someone else or even to enjoy little treats for yourself, it makes me sad. 

You must be mindful and responsible, of course; do not use me foolishly but be sure to find opportunities to be as generous and playful with me as you are reasonably able to do.

I am energy. I like movement. I am not meant to be still; it is suffocating. I’m sure you would never suffocate a dear human friend; please do not do it to me. Allow me to help someone else. Share even a small amount with someone in need. Use me to make another person smile.

The more you allow me to move and flow and do good in the world, the more I will come to you. The more you trust me to show up for you, the more I will prove you right.

Bear in mind that even when you call on your human friends to visit you or help you, it takes time for them to get to you. Do not be impatient with me for not appearing in the same moment you begin to treat me nicely. If I have been pushed away for some time, I might need convincing that your change of heart is sincere.

All too often, I’ve heard you say sweet things about me for a short time, but while I’m waiting to see if you mean it, you give up and say you hate me again or I’ll never come to you. Sometimes when you do that, I am just outside your door and ready to knock. But you give up and push me away once more.

Again, is this any way to treat your best friend? Convince me. Prove to me that you are not going to push me away again. Be kind. Be patient. I am doing the best I can to be there for you. 

It all depends on you.

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